Published - on a friend's blog

Thanks to Julie for allowing me to be a voice...you can visit her at www.surrenderedscribe.blogspot.com. She has some really amazing writing.
Julie "published" this story on her blog on May 20. I thought I'd share it with you.


The Voice of Compassion: Lisa Lytle Huber


Many have commented about how many voices I actually know. To be honest, there are very few this month that I have met in person. Some I know quite well online, some I'm just getting to know. Lisa Lytle Huber is one of those people I have known for a very long time. I've always admired her passion for life and people, she never gives anything less than 100%. This is my own marketing voice---If you need Pampered Chef items or are considering being part of the PC family, let Lisa hook you up. Her e mail is provided in her bio, or leave a comment here.



Lisa Lytle Huber was born and raised (mostly) in Big Flats, NY, but now resides in Marion, Indiana, where she lives with her husband Phil, and two beautiful daughters.

She is a PK (Pastor's Kid), writer, reader, loves to workout at the gym (and make fat muscles as her daughter says), and enjoys drinking strawberry-banana smoothies.

In 2001, she became a Pampered Chef Consultant, and now has a growing and excited team and business. If you would like to find out more about how to order or try the business, feel free to contact her at plhuber@gmail.com.

In 2007, she became a home schooling mom, and avid volunteer at The King's Academy.

Lisa loves to blog out her frustrations and feels that God often uses her tough situations or bad days, to help her learn important lessons. She hopes that by sharing her stories, you'll be blessed, challenged, and even think twice about something God may be trying to put his finger on in your life.



A Life Lesson in Reprimand


Have you ever been reprimanded for something you weren’t at fault for? Maybe it was when you were a kid…did you get accused of an action or behavior you didn’t do?

Do you remember how it felt? Was it like a knife to your heart? Did it bring tears? Did it make you mad or really angry?

How did you respond? Were you full of Godly love and forgiveness? Did you want to go lash out at the person who accused you? Did you back away and hide out?

Whatever your feelings or response, I’m guessing you can remember at least one experience like this in your past, or maybe in the present.

I experienced one of those situations today. Someone who didn’t even take the time to find out if I was at fault for the situation harshly reprimanded me. They just “blindly” reprimanded me as if I were some child who had done a terrible deed. It took me back to the days of childhood when I would respond in one of two different ways: 1) Get so angry I screamed at the one who reprimanded me or 2) go hide under my bed where no one could reach me (there are benefits to being small sometimes!) to pull me out. Although I am much too grown up to physically climb under a bed and hide, I wish that I could still have that place where I was not able to be reached. It’s not like anyone is here beating me or saying anything, but it is just that ever-constant stress of the situation and feeling like I can hear the one who reprimanded me standing here looking over my shoulder shaking their finger at me.

The Bible tells us we are to forgive. There are hundreds of verses, many of them I have heard (an memorized) since I was a child. I know in my head and in my heart that God has commanded us to forgive seventy times seven times (that’s 490 times for those of you math challenged people like me!). I truly hope that it doesn’t take me forgiving that many times to “be rid” of this feeling.

As I look at the situation today, it doesn’t matter that I really wasn’t at fault in any of the situations that were brought up. What matters most is that this person didn’t take the time to find out if I knew of these situations or allow me the chance to correct the issues I knew nothing about. I felt blind-sighted by the whole situation. It seems I must keep applying the 70X7 principle with this person, and that is hard.

This afternoon as I was working around the house, still steaming, God brought a lesson to me. I am a mom of two beautiful girls. How often to I jump to conclusions with them or accuse them before knowing the whole story? Am I actually willing to hear out their side of the story when I don’t believe they are telling me the truth? Do I, in my quickness to prejudge, bring these same feelings I have faced today, upon my own girls? Do I truly listen to what they are telling me or am I already thinking ahead to what my response is going to be?

I fear I am guilty as charged in most cases relating to the girls. God really put a finger on this today. I want to be a godly mom. Having said that, I know I am more accountable now then before!

What is God saying to you today? Have you reprimanded or accused someone for something they may not have done? Have you had anger toward someone, maybe even for years, and you’re tired of carrying the weight? I serve a God who forgives and forgets. He puts our sin as far as the east is from the west. Don’t allow your past hurts, anger, or wrongs keep you from the blessings and the lessons He has for you today.


Earlier this month I wrote something similar to Lisa's great post and it's also over at the Narrow Gate Invites today. You can take a look if you'd like.
http://thenarrowgateinvites.blogspot.com/2008/05/no-record.html

POSTED BY THE SURRENDERED SCRIBE AT 5/20/2008 11:17:00 AM
LABELS: FORGIVENESS, JUDGING, PAMPERED CHEF, REPRIMAND